Saturday, 5 October 2013

When Talent Comes Knocking


It's one of the things I love most about university, you get to surround yourself with people that have such amazing and diverse talents. From those that are brilliant at academics, to the dramatic and musically gifted. Being able to witness my friends using their talents has be such a gift to me. As someone who thinks they can sing, but probably can't, I'm in awe of the courage and perseverance that it takes to display your talents to the critics, yet people do it everyday.

Whether it is a visible thing like art, music or drama or whether it is simply being talented at connecting with people, I pray that we may all realise our talents and never take them for granted, but rather harness them and allow them to flourish.

So because I have some super talented friends I thought I would show them off.


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Kay Mosiane: See Facebook link above. If you ever have the chance to hear her sing TAKE IT.


Christo Greyling playing at Scifest in 2012. Apparently this isn't his best performance, but you get the idea. 

Check out my friends Sarah and Michelle's band Small Town Moon 

 



My beautiful friends Jane (above) and Ruth (below) performing in their 2012 ballet show. At the end of each year their company puts on a show in the Rhodes University drama theatre  
 

Check out my bestie Sitha Kentane's amazing photography http://sithakent.tumblr.com/ 



Friday, 4 October 2013

At the pulpit

So on Sunday 29 September 2013 I got the opportunity to preach at the student service at the Cathedral of St. Michael and St. George in Grahamstown. I was the first in a series of four student preachers for the student ministry. This was a nerve-racking and exciting experience and one that has taught me a lot.



Reading: Luke 16: 19-31 (Lazarus and the rich man)

Today we celebrate the patronal festival of the Cathedral, the 160th birthday of the Cathedral and the celebration of our patron Saints Michael and George. It is incredibly special to be sitting in a church that for 160 years has been a place of worship, fellowship and a home to all God’s people. But what does it mean to be a Godly person? How are we living our lives so that what we celebrate in this Cathedral can be seen everywhere we go.


When thinking about this reading I was weary about preaching about something we have all heard before. Deny worldly things and place all your faith in God. The anti-consumerists sermon that is preached so often.
What stood out for me in this passage was use of binary opposites.
·         Rich vs Poor,
·         inclusion vs exclusion 
·         compassion vs indifference,
·         faith vs unbelief,
·         Heaven vs hell.
Without lessoning the importance of the last 2 I am going to focus on the first 3.

Rich vs Poor, as students and young adults we are now starting to learn the value of our own money. Whether we earn it, get it as an allowance or are here on a scholarship. In this parable Jesus is not saying that to be rich is to be sinful nor is being poor holy, but it is where you place the power in your life that is important. Are we allowing God to be in control to grant us eternal riches or are we controlled by our desire for superficial, worldly power. The type that is instantly gratifying, but short lived.  

By being rich in worldly things have we become poor in our relationship with God? Where do we start to rebuild our lives when we feel as if we have lost God?

 As students rich does not only mean to have monetary wealth. We tend to place emphasis on our social wealth, the number of friends we have, are we invited to the Rat every Friday night, do we have more than 500 friends on Facebook, how many followers do we have on Twitter?
 What importance is all of this in our relationship with God?

When we walk down New street can people see that we are children of God, rich in God’s love or are we hiding this for the sake of our street cred? If this is the case the power in our life is not that of God, but a desire to be wealthy in a superficial world. I’m not saying that you need to give up your friends, or your money or delete your social network profiles, I am simply saying that perhaps we all need reconsider whether those that we surround ourselves helping us build a deep and rich relationship with the Lord or slowly helping us to forget it landing us in spiritual and Godly poverty. Because in the long run this is the relationship that matters most.

We need to consciously and purposefully give the power in our lives to God and yes we may lose something by doing this, but when we are serving a God who sacrificed his own son to save us how can we deny the relatively small sacrifice he expects from us?

Like the rich man, are we only going to realise all too late that we needed that relationship with God more than the hundred likes on our last Facebook status.

The idea of surrounding ourselves with Godly people lends itself to the next binary that of inclusion vs exclusion

Now we are all faced with the idea of being included or excluded. Some of it is forced on us by virtue of our gender, race, or religion, all of these governing the groups that will include us whether we like it or not.

Here’s an example, Zandile is a child that I work with every week suffering from cerebral palsy, she cannot walk, talk or communicate in anyway, none of this is her fault yet she is immediately excluded from ‘normal’ society.

This may seem like an extreme example but I ask you to think  about what aspects of your life, that you have not chosen, have granted you opportunities that others may not have, and what has left you feeling excluded or different?

Then there is also inclusion and exclusion that is controlled by us. The friendship groups we are in, the activities we partake in, the fact that we all decided to come to this Cathedral tonight.

What does this mean?

God gave us free will, the will to choose where we want to be included and where we choose to exclude ourselves. Are we consciously deciding to include ourselves in activities that will bring glory to God, are we open to include people who are seeking a relationship with God, but maybe aren’t at the same point as us or have different opinions to us? Are we excluding ourselves from dangerous, self-destructive things that may provide immediate satisfaction, but in the long run leave us feeling empty and alone? Like the rich man, are we seeking inclusion in the world rather than inclusion is God’s Kingdom?

The third contrast that is made is that of compassion vs indifference.

I’m sure as residents of Grahamstown we can all relate to the rich man as he walks past Lazarus lying on the pavement and pays no attention to this man with no home. We pass begging hands on the way to Pick ’n Pay and shrug them off or give them a look of disapproval. Our disdain and indifference towards these people in palpable.

To be different from the rich man, we do not have to give every person we pass on the street our hard earned money, but we do need to acknowledge them as people as more than just a body lying on the side of the road, an obstacle to jump over. Their humanity is as worthy as ours.

This indifference can be seen in other places in our lives too. 
Many of us also hold strong opinions about every day issues, be it politics, sexuality or religion.
 I recently read a quote by Rick Warren that ended, “we do not have to compromise our convictions to be compassionate”.

Our opinions are not going to change overnight, but we are commanded to love one another as we love ourselves and as God loves us. We cannot be cold, distant and hateful to those who are different to us. How do we encourage people to find God when we are not willing to hear them, love and show them what it means to be a person of God. Are we open to loving people like Zandile, like the person sitting next to you, like the person who spreads rumours about you, the person who laughs at your religion or the homeless child who never gives up? God calls us to love them all

How do we do this?

Prayer?
Instead of shrugging people off, pray for them, even if you may look a little strange standing on the side of the road, with your eyes closed, deep in prayer.
And Love,
Treat people the way you want to be treated. Show love even if you may disagree, with what we may think or how they act.

Doing this isn't easy but, it’s is a struggle that we will all face together.

So what are the commonalities between these three contrasts? Is it:
·         Good vs evil
·         God vs the world
I will leave you to come to your own conclusion, but perhaps it is that to do all of this we need God’s unconditional love as our example.

Now as we consider these three opposites we realise that the other two, faith vs unbelief and heaven vs hell. If we have faith then we will be called to love other, include ourselves in God’s army and find wealth in our relationship with God. And by doing this we will be saved from a life of eternal suffering and allowed into eternal peace with God.   

So I ask that as we leave this Cathedral as people of God, may we be people that  are compassionate even when it comes with a sacrifice,  to be inclusive rather than exclusive and find our richness in God’s love.  

Tuesday, 1 October 2013

My Life is Photographs

So the past couple of weeks have been a whirl wind of events so here are the highlights.

PROJECT EDEN. The student ministry got their hands dirty planting our church gardens






The awesome team for all over G-Town









DROSTDY'S GOT TALENT...and they do






Yes that's me looking super cool...or not



BREAK THROUGH HOLIDAY CLUB





































DROSTDY HALL BALL: Masquerade










Saturday, 14 September 2013

It's a process



This post is potentially quite sad, but it's about something that myself and others in my life have had to deal with a lot recently.

In the past couple of weeks the number of young lives that have been lost or almost lost have been running through my head and conversations with friends. Firstly the massive truck accident in Pinetown Kwa-Zulu Natal where 22 people were killed.  A young woman and former student at Rhodes passed away from leukemia on Thursday and who can forget the lives being lost in war-torn countries like Egypt, Iraq and Syria.

Everyday, every hour, minute, second someone faces loss. With it comes a flurry of emotions, some of which we may never have experienced. Grief, guilt, hatred, sadness, anger, confusion and hopefully, eventually peace.

It seems the older I get the more the death of people my age and the loss of life in general has a profound impact on my life. It is difficult to imagine that people who are at the prime of their lives are dealing with illness like cancer, or parents who are mourning the loss of a child. Maybe it is because I could not imagine being put in that situation myself. How does one come to terms with such loss, how do we move forward.

A discussion I was having about forgiveness has got me thinking about how we deal with such situations. When faced with loss we may want to blame someone, hate something, forget another, but God's gift to us is forgiveness through the ultimate sacrifice. If we cannot forgive others, or simply our circumstances, how can we be forgiven ourselves. Whether you are Christian or not, the act of forgiveness can be just as meaningful. Forgiving is not forgetting, that is an impossible task, it is accepting what happened, letting go of anger and hatred you hold for anything or anyone and working towards peace for your own spirit.

Forgiveness is not a once-off - limited edition - only-while-stocks last product, it is a continuous process and at points we will have to remind ourselves that we have forgiven someone. But it is at these moments that we should call to mind all the great memories of the one we have lost or the blessings that your life is filled with, and remind yourself of what you have in spite of what happened.

Life is too short waste time on blaming, hating, aggravating. I'm not saying that we cannot take our time, believe me we all need to, but do not allow it to consume you, whoever you have lost would not want that and if it isn't someone you lost then don't lose yourself by not forgiving.  

For me its my faith that carries me through. The prayer that God will grant their spirits eternal peace and the faith that he is holding us all up even when we are at our lowest.

Whatever trials and tribulations you may face in life, do not lose the person you are. Allow your self to experience the roller-coaster of emotion and then forgive and find peace, because it is doing that we can start to find joy in our lives again. Do not allow your circumstances to define you, define what you want your circumstances to become.

My word, I'm sorry if this post is a bit over the top, but it's on my mind.

Wednesday, 4 September 2013

Childhood delights

A lot has changed in the last 21 years. Movie technology has become so advanced that you can't tell whether somethings real or animated.

I still remember the first movie that I ever saw at the cinema. It was The Lion King. This movie was so beautifully crafted despite the fact that African animals spoke with American accents. It was brilliant.


There are other movies that define my childhood:

  • Mary Poppins 
  • Sound of Music
  • My Fairlady
  • Anastasia
  • Beauty and the Beast
  • Cinderella
  • Lady and the Tramp
  • Fox and the Hound (still cannot watch it without crying)
  • Faraway Tree
  • You've got mail
  • Notting Hill
  • Forrest Gump
  • Fly Away Home (still one of my favourites)
Now I hate to sound like one of those cliched old people, but they just don't make them like they used to.

Now its all about Ben10, Anime and attempts at recreating the old Disney magic, but nothing quite captures the beauty and authenticity of the old movies.


Hopefully we won't lose these gems so that our children can experience them too.

What were some of your childhood favourites?


Sunday, 18 August 2013

Just one of those things

Generally I'm the strong person. The one that everyone turns to. And I love it. I truly believe that it is my calling to be an ear when people need someone and to be the strength for those that cannot hold themselves up. Someone even asked me just a couple of days ago if I ever get sad or mad. I guess I'm answering that question right now.

Even I have my moments when I just want to crumble.

I tend to take on a lot of what those around me are feeling. When my friends suffer, I suffer for them, when they need to scream I will lose my voice. Perhaps this isn't the most rational way are dealing with things and it may not necessarily healthy, but it's who I am.

Today, I reached that point of absolute saturation. I have a statistics test, I have other work, duties, responsibilities and time is screaming past me in a blur. I give time to all my friends and I don't judge or turn my back on people who perhaps need a wake up call.

And then I just stopped.

I got to church and just went straight into conversation with God. I was angry, worried and exhausted and by the end of the service my emotions were obviously clearly visible because I was embraced by love and hugs from everyone.

So here's a little insight into me that only a few know. It takes a lot to get me really down like a lot and it takes even more for me to share it with other people. Writing this blog post is even a challenge for me, but what's life without a challenge.

 I hate feeling like a burden and I know that other people suffer from a great deal more than I do. Yet there are those people that my guard falls down around and they are people I cherish most in my life. And the common denominator in all of us is our love of God. It is one of the most comforting things to see God in your relationships with people, to share in Gods strength. It is like a warm blanket that holds us together in ways that we may not even understand.

Lesley, Mona and Namso you are some very special human beans* and you were complaining that I haven't mentioned you in a blog post yet so here is a super special one to be mentioned in. The fact that you don't even wait for me to open up and just bombard me with hugs and questions is something that I am incredibly grateful for. You allow me to have my moments and just let go. I admire you all in unique ways and you are all beautiful women of God. You're cool, you can stay :)

I guess what I continue to learn in life is that we really cannot do it all alone. It sounds ridiculously cliched, but there it is. Even the strongest people have their cracks and bruises.

Don't get me wrong I most certainly plan to bounce back (momentum is already building) and perhaps it is these low moments that make us appreciate the joy and love that we experience every other day.  

Have a good week everyone.